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		<title>Stop The Agony of An Affair</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 16:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dr. Bob Huizenga
Get back to your old self&#8230;
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&#8220;Is &#8216;Not Knowing&#8217; Killing You Inside &#8230; Or Your Marriage? Are You Tired of All The Lies And Excuses? Are You Afraid That You&#8217;ll Confirm Your Suspicions? More Importantly, Will You Ever Find Happiness Again, If It Does Exist?&#8221; 
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<p>Get back to your old self&#8230;<br />
or someone better<br />
Save Your Marriage&#8230;<br />
if you really want to</p>
<p>&#8220;Is &#8216;Not Knowing&#8217; Killing You Inside &#8230; Or Your Marriage? Are You Tired of All The Lies And Excuses? Are You Afraid That You&#8217;ll Confirm Your Suspicions? More Importantly, Will You Ever Find Happiness Again, If It Does Exist?&#8221; </p>
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		<title>Marriage and Then Children</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 02:43:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Marriage and then children; normally one or the other becomes priority in the marriage and in most cases motherhood wins.  Children take up a great deal of a mother’s time and energy and she gladly assumes that role.  After all, isn’t that the way it is “supposed to be”?  It must be understood the marriage [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #4b4b4b;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana;"><a target="_blank" title="Save My Marriage Today" href="http://annwoo888.panicaway.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">Marriage</a> and then children; normally one or the other becomes priority in the marriage and in most cases motherhood wins.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Children take up a great deal of a mother’s time and energy and she gladly assumes that role.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>After all, isn’t that the way it is “supposed to be”?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>It must be understood the marriage that came before the children is just as important as nurturing the children.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #4b4b4b;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">What the wife on the other hand fails to realize is she is not only neglecting her marriage, but the man she married. This will probably start fights between the wife and husband.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>This fighting puts more stress on the marriage and causes anxiety. Not only is this unfulfilling for the husband, but the emotionless relationship is sensed by the children and can cause stress and anxiety for the children.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>The fighting and emotionless marriage will teach, by example, how the children handle all of their relationships throughout their lives. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #4b4b4b;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">In some cases the wife acknowledges the husband but not the man and his needs whether sexual or emotional.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Sadly most marriages without other contributing circumstances being involved, such as adultery or physical abuse, stay together.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #4b4b4b;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">While it may take a little work, realizing that having a happy and strong <a target="_blank" title="Save My Marriage Today" href="http://annwoo888.savemarria.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">marriage</a> after children will make their entire life run smoother. It is going to take time and effort, but you must learn to understand that spending time with your spouse is just as important as spending time with the children.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></span></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #4b4b4b;"><span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana;">I cannot stress this enough.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>You must communicate with your spouse or significant other in all areas of the relationship.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Communicate and at all times, treat each other with respect.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>Weddings</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 12:50:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Relationships and Commitment</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 16:12:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just wanted to share a bit of information I was given by a good friend when I asked &#8220;why don&#8217;t people stay together anymore, where is the commitment&#8221;?
The answer was very simple.  Because we expect things in life and people to be perfect.  Unless we can learn to accept the other person [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just wanted to share a bit of information I was given by a good friend when I asked &#8220;why don&#8217;t people stay together anymore, where is the commitment&#8221;?</p>
<p>The answer was very simple.  Because we expect things in life and people to be perfect.  Unless we can learn to accept the other person for their imperfections, we will always be disappointed and always be looking for something that just doesn&#8217;t exist.</p>
<p>Excitement and romance can only last so long, so before you commit, know the other person&#8217;s imperfections and decide if, at the end of the day you can accept them and continue to be committed to that person.</p>
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		<title>Am I Having a Panic Attack?</title>
		<link>http://www.gotlovelife.com/2008/09/am-i-having-a-panic-attack/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Sep 2008 04:01:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are any of these Feeling familiar to you:
Dizzy spells leading to panic
Tightness in throat and chest- shortness of breath
Racing heart with tingle sensations
Hot flushes followed by waves of anxiety
Obsessive worries and unwanted thoughts
Not feeling connected to what is going on around you
Overwhelming fear that the anxiety will push you over the edge?
 
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Dizzy spells leading to panic</p>
<p>Tightness in throat and chest- shortness of breath</p>
<p>Racing heart with tingle sensations</p>
<p>Hot flushes followed by waves of anxiety</p>
<p>Obsessive worries and unwanted thoughts</p>
<p>Not feeling connected to what is going on around you</p>
<p>Overwhelming fear that the anxiety will push you over the edge?<br />
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		<title>Cure Porn Addiction</title>
		<link>http://www.gotlovelife.com/2008/09/porn-addiction/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 04:01:23 +0000</pubDate>
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With an Internet pornography addiction, the addicts find themselves compulsively drawn to their computers, seeking adult material online. This type of addiction can be seen as both a sexual addiction and a form of online addiction such as gambling or gaming.
Much debate exists currently over whether &#8220;addictive&#8221; behaviors such as gambling, gaming, or viewing online pornography should be [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: #000000; font-family: Verdana;">With an Internet pornography addiction, the addicts find themselves compulsively drawn to their computers, seeking adult material online. This type of addiction can be seen as both a sexual addiction and a form of online addiction such as gambling or gaming.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: #000000; font-family: Verdana;">Much debate exists currently over whether &#8220;addictive&#8221; behaviors such as gambling, gaming, or viewing online pornography should be labeled addictive since there are no physical withdrawal symptoms should the addict stop their behavior.  However experts decide to mark behavior as addictive when a person remains committed to these activities even when negative consequences prevail.  The negative consequences are what differentiates a compulsive behavior such as obsessive compulsive disorder and an addictive behavior, such as viewing online pornography.  Negative consequences for the single person can cause problems in all aspects of their lives such as their jobs or enjoying real love relationships.  In the cases of marriage and serious relationships, an addiction to viewing adult material online or offline can be catastrophic to these relationships.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 0pt;"><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: #000000; font-family: Verdana;">Research has shown that unless the addict seeks help, they are unlikely to stop their addictive behavior on their own.  It has also been reported by experts that half of the divorces handled by lawyers are due to one of the spouse&#8217;s excessive viewing of online pornography.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 7.5pt; color: #000000; font-family: Verdana;">Even though the addiction is powerful, an Internet Pornography Addiction can be treated.  Whether single or married, it is important that the addicts not keep the problem to themselves. Unless the addict seeks help, research has shown that they are unlikely to stop their addictive behavior on their own.</span></p>
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		<title>Amazing Wedding Planning</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 04:01:14 +0000</pubDate>
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You&#8217;ll get practical, no-fluff advice with &#8220;battle-tested&#8221; inside tips, proven tricks and wedding planning secrets designed to avoid disasters, eliminate stress, and save you a bundle of money (and no, you will NOT find anything like this in one of those $10-$30 wedding books you see on bookstores, magazine, or online stores)
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<p style="text-align: center;">You&#8217;ll get <span style="text-decoration: underline;">practical</span>, <em>no-fluff</em> advice with &#8220;battle-tested&#8221; inside tips, proven tricks and wedding planning secrets designed to avoid disasters, eliminate stress, and save you a bundle of money (and no, you will NOT find anything like this in one of those $10-$30 wedding books you see on bookstores, magazine, or online stores)</p>
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		<title>Fitness for Weddings</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 04:01:03 +0000</pubDate>
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 The Only Diet Created Exclusively For
The Bride With A Deadline.
The Wedding Day Diet is a step-by-step, day-by-day action plan that exploits every single weight loss trick in the book. I’ve taken the underground secrets used by fashion models before their shoots and uncovered the science-backed routines fitness models depend on to cut weight for shows, and [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: center;"> <strong>The Only Diet Created Exclusively For<br />
The Bride With A Deadline.</strong></p>
<p>The Wedding Day Diet is a step-by-step, day-by-day action plan that exploits every single weight loss trick in the book. I’ve taken the underground secrets used by fashion models before their shoots and uncovered the science-backed routines fitness models depend on to cut weight for shows, and shed light on some of the ultra-modern techniques used by the rich and famous to get their bods in killer shape for the red carpet.</p>
<p>Best of all, I’ve made it easy. I explain exactly what to do if you have 32 days until your wedding or if you have 6 days until your wedding. You just find your starting point and pick up from there.</p>
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		<title>Love Can be Troublesome?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 04:01:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Falling in love is often too much trouble for people.  There are always so many reasons why we feel that love is a waste of time.  People have excuses for not falling in love such as, their work takes up most of their time, or they have had a bad relationship and have the attitude &#8220;been there, done [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Falling in love is often too much trouble for people.  There are always so many reasons why we feel that love is a waste of time.  People have excuses for not falling in love such as, their work takes up most of their time, or they have had a bad relationship and have the attitude &#8220;been there, done that&#8221;.  What these people don&#8217;t know is that every relationship is not successful, but so important to our well-being.  Taking a chance and falling in love actually can be good for you.  Falling in love <strong>IS</strong> good for you.  When in love you feel amazing and everything, even the simple things feel wonderful.</div>
<p>Let&#8217;s think about some of the ways love can and does make your life more fulfilling.  Love can give you a good reason to get up in the early morning to go to work, exercise and provide more energy for everything you do.  </p>
<div>Falling in love can make your life richer and fuller.  A healthy relationship can make both parties more focused on their work and in turn acquire more success. When people feel they are doing things not just for themselves,  but for the one they have fallen in love with, it gives a boost to everything in their lives.  Their job is much easier because they know they will be going home to the person they love.  They will be going home to that person they took the chance and fell in love with.  </div>
<div> </div>
<div>Yes, love can make you sensitive, but this can be a great feeling and is not a bad feeling at all.  You begin to feel more receptive to the feelings of the people around you and even go out of your way to say and do things that will make the other person feel great too.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Does falling in love make you weak?  Maybe sometimes, but it can also make you feel strong in many ways.  Love can give you the motivation to continue in a situation that could easily be given up on.  </div>
<div> </div>
<div>You could actually write a book on why falling in love is a wonderful thing and worth the effort.  When you are in love and the relationship is healthy and strong for both of the parties involved, the relationship could even last forever.</div>
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		<title>How to Keep Her</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 04:01:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are several mistakes men make that can lead to adultery in their marriage or relationship.  Being a woman, in most cases I truly believe these men do not even know what is happening right in front of their eyes.  They see the two kids, the fenced back yard, mini van and there you have it.  He [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>There are several mistakes men make that can lead to adultery in their marriage or relationship.  Being a woman, in most cases I truly believe these men do not even know what is happening right in front of their eyes.  They see the two kids, the fenced back yard, mini van and there you have it.  He works, watches football, basketball, and hangs with the guys.  Hey, he has married her, she is &#8220;his&#8221;, and in most cases this husband thinks he has done his job.  Not in all cases, but in many, this is wrong.  Let me give you guys some pointers.  </div>
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<div>Sex is wonderful in the beginning.  There is excitement and romance.  We all know that does not last.  By nature men feel the need for release when the wife is looking for the romance and excitement to continue.  Women need foreplay. And if a woman is not having an orgasm and you don&#8217;t care or even realize it, the marriage is going to go down fast. </div>
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<div><span style="color: #ff0000;">Romance and Excitement</span>:  Try this guys.  When you get that urge to have sex, don&#8217;t ask.  Walk up behind her, rub her here and there while she is washing dishes or bending over the washer or dryer and it is likely she will join right in.  Throw her on the table and make her feel like you have to have her there and now.  After all guys, don&#8217;t you want that anyway.    <strong>Think outside the box.</strong></div>
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<div><span style="color: #ff0000;">Pay Attention</span>:  A major reason some women end up cheating on their partners is a lack of attention and emotional fulfillment. She becomes lonely and goes out looking for the attention and emotional fulfillment she desperately desires.  You see some men treat their wives or lovers as if they don&#8217;t exist.   </div>
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<div>Attention comes in many forms such as noticing the little things.  Take note when she gets a cut and color at the salon.  Not whether you like it or don&#8217;t, just a comment that you have noticed.  Does she have on a new dress?  Is she wearing sexy lingerie to bed?  Let her know you notice.  If you aren&#8217;t paying attention, start.  <strong>Just pay attention guys the results will be worth this small effort.</strong></div>
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<div><strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">Respect Her</span>:</strong>  A lack of respect in any form is a reason why some women end up cheating on their husbands or lovers. You see some men don&#8217;t treat their wives or lovers well.  When this happens, she may take emotional revenge on her husband or lover and cheat.  </div>
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<p>Let&#8217;s think about that.  Respect could simply be opening a car door or pulling a chair out for her at the dinner table.  If you have plans with the guys, make sure she is the first to know.  Ask her before you make plans so she feels like a part of the relationship.  Always introduce her to anyone you and her encounter that she has not met before.  If you use the last razor, tell her so she doesn&#8217;t start a shower just to realize there isn&#8217;t a razor and there isn&#8217;t one to be found.  Even if she is &#8220;responsible&#8221; for purchasing such items, she can&#8217;t if she doesn&#8217;t know.  Last and most importantly, lift the toilet lid and afterwards close the toilet lid.  There is nothing worse than siting down on wet toilet seat that hasn&#8217;t been lifted or almost falling in the toilet because the lid was not down  <strong>If respect isn&#8217;t in your vocabulary, look it up.<br />
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Relationships are tough, but a few simple steps can go a long way.  <strong>Give it a try.</strong></p>
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		<title>Solid Relationship is Key</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Sep 2008 04:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many times people commit to relationships with the idea that they can change the other person later. This is not good.  Either you like whom you meet, or you do not. No one can change another human being, the person must have the desire to change.  The first step to change is acceptance and then the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="iqo_0">Many times people commit to relationships with the idea that they can change the other person later. This is not good.  Either you like whom you meet, or you do not. No one can change another human being, the person must have the desire to change.  The first step to change is acceptance and then the willingness to make the changes that are needed.  </div>
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<div id="iqo_1">When someone promises to change for you, beware.  Most times the promises are not met, or the person has &#8220;skeletons in the closet&#8221; that you could be forced to deal with later.</div>
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<div id="iqo_2">If you are a dreamer, you may look at the relationship as a dream come true.  This is not good either. You lose the benefits by not getting to know the person you have mated with or you wake up from your dream and find that you made a very real mistake. </div>
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<div id="iqo_3">Communicating is key in any relationship.  Communicating leads to the building of a strong foundation.  Laying a good foundation for your relationship takes you and your mate being honest and learning to trust one another with unselfish motives.</div>
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<div id="iqo_4">Selfishness has lead to various problems, including adultery physical abuse, divorce, just to name a few.  Selfishness is one of the leading causes of a relationship or marriage failing.  Instead of being selfish and self-serving, stay focused on your mate and how they feel.  This will go a long way in creating a strong and solid relationship.</div>
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<div id="iqo_6">Sharing plays a large part in love and relationships.  When two people share, they are giving something to the other that leaves a lasting feeling of joy and love. Sharing your thoughts and feelings with your mate is important to stay focused on each other. </div>
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<div>Communication, selflessness and sharing can be the beginning of a solid relationship that will be more likely to weather any storms they encounter. </div>
<div id="jgg30">Relationships built on solid grounds rarely fall apart when troubles come their way.</div>
<div id="jgg31"><br id="iqo_8" />The key is to enhance a weak, unhealthy relationship, or get out!</div>
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		<title>Adultery vs. Physical Abuse</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 21:14:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In a divorce situation, hate for the other is unproductive at least and debilitating for sure.
Although two divorced people may have &#8220;equal&#8221; grounds for the divorce and hating after a divorce, physical abuse in and of itself is a completely different animal and in no way can be compared to adultery.
In a physically abusive relationship, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a divorce situation, hate for the other is unproductive at least and debilitating for sure.</p>
<p>Although two divorced people may have &#8220;equal&#8221; grounds for the divorce and hating after a divorce, physical abuse in and of itself is a completely different animal and in no way can be compared to adultery.</p>
<p>In a physically abusive relationship, forgive, let go of the hate, but leave first. There is no talking about it or taking blame for being physically abused that will enable the relationship to survive.</p>
<p>Abuse does come in many forms. Adultery is a form of abuse. Abuse of the the trust and love one professes to the other in a committed relationship.</p>
<p>Not in all cases, but in some, adultery does not have to be the end of a relationship, but cannot be tolerated. Adultery is considered by therapists to be the second most difficult marriage issue to resolve. Anything a spouse does to threaten their spouse&#8217;s trust is adultery. Seeking understanding is the first step in knowing whether trying to regain the trust and repair the relationship is worth the time and effort required to really move forward.</p>
<p>In most cases adultery can be stopped in its tracks where physical abuse rarely and most times never stops. Abuse of a spouse is most likely learned behavior. It is easy for the abuser to use the excuse that they can&#8217;t help it because of the situation in life that caused them to abuse. They will promise not to ever do it again, they have learned their lesson and cannot live without them. In truth, if a man abuses you once, he will do it again.</p>
<p>Adultery-Understanding-Possibly save a marriage</p>
<p>Physical abuse-the end.</p>
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		<title>Life After Divorce</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2008 17:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
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There must be forgiveness after divorce.  If we do not forgive it is almost impossible to move forward in our lives or in another relationship.  Not only does forgiveness help us move forward, but it gives us freedom.
 
Having said that, this is not easy.  What makes it difficult to forgive is the circumstances surrounding the divorce.  Whether it be [...]]]></description>
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<div>There must be forgiveness after divorce.  If we do not forgive it is almost impossible to move forward in our lives or in another relationship.  Not only does forgiveness help us move forward, but it gives us freedom.</div>
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<div>Having said that, this is not easy.  What makes it difficult to forgive is the circumstances surrounding the divorce.  Whether it be adultery, physical abuse, mental abuse, you can&#8217;t help feeling mad and hating the person that caused you the pain, especially if you didn&#8217;t see it coming.</div>
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<div>How can we forgive someone who has done us wrong and betrayed us and snatched the trust right from under out feet?</div>
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<div>First stop blaming, pointing fingers and separate the person you loved from the reason you divorced. This does not mean what the person did to ruin your marriage was okay, it simply means that you can make a conscious decision to forgive the situation.  </div>
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<div>Most often in these types of divorce situations, hate is the most predominant emotion.  So, we all agree hate is an emotion, it means, even though it is hate, you feel something for that person.  Forgive, don&#8217;t be hating because hate will eat you alive and ruin your life.  When you truly forgive you will feel nothing for the person.  You will then be free.</div>
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<div>I have personally witnessed this very situation.  This particular broken marriage was due to physical abuse and the hate that followed afterwards.  The abused spouse in the marriage forgave and the abuser did not.  He felt the physical abuse was her fault because she had provoked him.  He felt it was her fault, not his.  How could she have broken up the family, he thinks.  He is continuing to point fingers and lay blame. </div>
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<div>I have watched the abused in this situation move forward with her life.  In some cases when there has been physical abuse it seems harder to trust another relationship, but she has forgiven the situation that envolved him and she is truly free.  The abuser&#8217;s hate is so deep seeded and his resentment so strong, I have watched him as he withers away. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>If you have children, the children suffer when the parents fight.  If you can’t forgive and let go of the hatred and forgive your ex for yourself, be selfless and do it for the children involved. And, please, if you are in a physically abusive relationship of any kind, get out.</div>
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<div>From the beginning of time, freedom has not been easy.  From the beginning of time, it has also been proven that freedom can be achieved.  </div>
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<div>Forgive and become free.</div>
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		<title>Misconceptions, Men, and Sex</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 17:16:02 +0000</pubDate>
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That a man should always start and lead during sex is ridiculous.  Men also like their partner to take the lead.  To think that men should always be the catalyst in a sexual situation is way too much pressure for any man to take on.  Along with this burden he also is expected to know what his partner wants, and [...]]]></description>
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<div>That a man should always start and lead during <a target="_blank" title="500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets" href="http://annwoo888.mwebb.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">sex</a> is ridiculous.  Men also like their partner to take the lead.  To think that men should always be the catalyst in a sexual situation is way too much pressure for any man to take on.  Along with this burden he also is expected to know what his partner wants, and how she wants it.  These are foolish beliefs and if acted upon will leave both partners unsatisfied emotionally and physically.  Ladies it is okay to take the lead.  A man will not think less of you.   </div>
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<div><a target="_blank" title="500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets" href="http://annwoo888.mwebb.hop.clickbank.net/" target="_blank">A man does not know exactly what his partner wants and needs during sex</a>.  It is imperative that the couple have an effective way of communicating their needs to their partner.  If not it is like a game of cat and mouse as to whether the woman is satisfied.  You have to communicate because if you don&#8217;t the burden of making sure she has an orgasm is a heavy load for his erect penis.  Communication is key.</div>
<div>Men are not animals that thrive on sex and have to have it all the time with any woman that is available.  Men do need, in most cases, more sexual release than women, but this does not mean a man is always ready for sex or attracted to every woman that is available to him for sex. Men have emotions and their hormones most certainly play a part in whether they even want sex at all at the time.  It is a ridiculous misconception that men should be &#8220;sex machines&#8221; able to be erect and have sex anytime, anywhere and with any woman available.</div>
<div>During sex a penis will not always be completely erect.  An erection can come and go during the act, but this does not mean sex cannot be enjoyed.  The misconception that a man should be fully erect from start to finish causes men a great deal of anxiety, self-doubt or their ability to have sex at all.  In turn they distance themselves from not only sex, but their partner. </div>
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<div>If both partners are enjoying the act and they are focused on the physical touch of their partner and like the way it makes them feel, the erection will come back. This can happen over and over and be much more enjoyable than an erect, quick penis.  It is important that men understand this particular misconception as it causes men a great deal of self doubt and anxiety.  This can lead to the downfall of a relationship that could otherwise be enjoyable if this particular misconception is understood and the partners have an open line of communication.</div>
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		<title>Get Back the Love of Your Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2008 16:26:42 +0000</pubDate>
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You are feeling broken hearted, lonely and despondent because of a relationship breakup, and you long for the return of a lost love or spouse &#8230;
Your spouse or lover has been having an extramarital affair, but you [...]]]></description>
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<p>Your spouse or lover has been having an extramarital affair, but you truly care for this person and are willing to do anything necessary to save your relationship &#8230;</p>
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